Overcoming in
the Desert Seasons
by Tamera
Alexander
Do you like
deserts? Not desserts, mind you, those are much easier to love. But
deserts. Specifically, the desert times of life. Those seasons in our earthly
journey when our hearts feel dry and empty, purposeless. When our spirit can
grow weary due, perhaps in part, to a prolonged illness or injury, to trials or
troubled relationships, or maybe disappointment in a career. Those times when
there seems to be no end in sight to the "soul drought."
I’ve experienced
those seasons in my life. I think we all have. There’s a verse I came across
years ago during one of these times, and since then, God has engraved it on my
heart:
"When Pharaoh finally let the people go,
God did not lead them along the main road that runs through Philistine territory, even though that was
the shortest route to the Promised Land. God said, "If the people are faced with a
battle, they might change their minds and return to Egypt." So God led
them in a roundabout way through the wilderness..."
(Exodus 13:17-18a)
Did the same
phrase jump out at you that jumped out at me that day? "God did not lead
them along the main road…even though that was the shortest route to the
Promised Land."
Why on earth
would God purposefully make the Israelites go the longer, harder route? Why
would he keep his chosen people wandering in the desert? When we travel, don’t
we typically opt for the shortest route? Why wouldn’t God do that too?
Because He
knows something we don’t. About us. And about the journey.
In the past,
when I’ve been in those desert seasons, I’ve asked God why I'm there.
Rarely have I gotten an immediate response, mind you, if I get one at all. So I
push on, just like you do, through the responsibilities and obligations of
life, seeking God’s face, listening for his voice.
One such
desert time for me was watching my mom suffer from metastatic gallbladder
cancer. Her journey from diagnosis to stepping into Jesus’s arms was brief.
Only six months. And traveling that road with her was one of the most agonizing––yet
most precious and beautiful––times in my life. Odd how often the most beautiful
experiences also involve moments of excruciating pain.
In writing A
Beauty So Rare I drew upon many of my own desert seasons, specifically when
writing about Eleanor Braddock and her relationship with her father. God showed
me yet again (with the benefit of distance and perspective), how faithful He
is. How intentional his love is. And how he always has our best at heart, even
when our hearts are breaking.
I’ve learned
we ought not let our circumstances teach us theology. God is faithful. He’s
sovereign. Always. And if we’re in the desert, we’re there because he’s either
allowed it, or designed it. It’s not pleasant, the desert. It’s prickly,
irritatingly sandy, and it burns. But God has proven over and over to me that I’ll
be better for the experience in the end. My own heart grows more pliant in those times, and
I become more like clay in the Potter’s hands, which I so long to be on a daily
basis.
So when you’re
empty inside and feel your loneliest, remember you’re never alone. God sees
you. He loves you. These desert seasons are training grounds. They’re heavenly-orchestrated
detours intended for our eternal good. And even though it may not feel
like it, God is still guiding each and every step, because we’re on our way to the
Promised Land!
Continued Blessings! Tamera
www.TameraAlexander.com
Thank you Tamera for sharing with us on OWG! Readers we have lots of giveaways this week. We were all waiting so patiently for Tamera's new release and "A Beauty So Rare" was worth it! This lovely Christian historical romance will be on my best of 2014 reads.
Giveaway: (This week, we have a paperback and ebook copy of A Beauty So Rare, a Starbucks $10 card, a pink surprise giveaway and Tamera is offering a signed copy, too!) Answer the Q--What has helped you during a season of soul drought? For extra entry entry "Like" Tamera's FB page and put FB on your comment. Leave your email address so we can contact you.
Thank you Tamera for sharing with us on OWG! Readers we have lots of giveaways this week. We were all waiting so patiently for Tamera's new release and "A Beauty So Rare" was worth it! This lovely Christian historical romance will be on my best of 2014 reads.
Giveaway: (This week, we have a paperback and ebook copy of A Beauty So Rare, a Starbucks $10 card, a pink surprise giveaway and Tamera is offering a signed copy, too!) Answer the Q--What has helped you during a season of soul drought? For extra entry entry "Like" Tamera's FB page and put FB on your comment. Leave your email address so we can contact you.