Sarah Sundin is the author of A Distant Melody, A Memory
Between Us, and Blue Skies Tomorrow.
Sarah welcome to Overcoming Through Time.
Would you share
either the most difficult thing in your life you have had to overcome, with
God’s help, or the most tragic situation or circumstance one of your
character’s has had to get past?
Although it might not have been the most difficult thing in
my life, shame was a tenacious enemy and difficult to overcome.
I now call my college years my “stupid years”—I told myself
I was taking a vacation from God and I was going to have fun! Instead of
finding joy, I found heartache, chaos, and misery. After I graduated, I slowly
returned to God and He forgave my sins. However, ironically, the closer I got
to the Lord, the more my shame increased as I saw new dimensions of my sin—how
I’d hurt others, led others astray, and grieved the Lord. I felt unworthy of
God’s forgiveness, unworthy to be a wife and mother, unworthy to serve God in
the church, and unworthy to write the stories I sensed He’d given me. After
all, if people really knew who I was, they wouldn’t want to listen to me!
The Lord intervened through His word and His people to show
me that my past sins weren’t the problem—my current shame was the true problem.
Shame is one of Satan’s favorite weapons, and he uses it well to incapacitate
Christians. I was had definitely fallen prey.
To shove shame out of my life, I had to immerse myself in
God’s truth:
1)
Christ fully redeems our sins. Once for all.
When I asked Him to forgive me over and over for the same sin, I was saying I
didn’t truly trust Him to forgive as He’d promised. I actually believed my sins
were too great for His blood to cleanse. I had to embrace the fullness and
totality of God’s forgiveness.
2)
Christ covers our sins. When He forgives our
sins, He exchanges our filthy, heavy cloak of shame for His glorious robe of
righteousness. When the Father looks at us, He sees His Son’s righteousness.
Our sins are truly wiped away.
3)
Christ restores us. After I trusted His
forgiveness, a new lie took hold. I might be forgiven, but I was damaged and
useless to God. But look closely at the story of the Prodigal Son in Luke 15.
The son is completely restored to his position as son, with all the rights,
privileges, and authority of a son. That’s what the Lord does for us. He treats
us as His precious children and gives us His authority to do His work.
4)
Christ restores us for a purpose. While doing
the hard work of shoving off shame does give personal peace, that is not the
primary purpose. Rather, the Lord restores us to do His work—to teach, to offer
comfort, to serve Him, and to show God to others. Isn’t that exciting?
Shoving off shame was hard work,
requiring prayer, learning God’s Word, and disciplining myself to refuse to
dwell on the past and to recognize Satan’s lies and push them out of my head
before I entered shame’s downward spiral. However, I’ve seen the fruit of that
labor. Once I’d shoved off the shame, God was able to use me. He’s given me the
blessing of teaching in Sunday school, women’s Bible studies, and workshops.
And He’s allowed me to write stories that I pray will glorify Him.
What is your favorite
bible verse and why?
For dealing with shame, my favorite verse is Isaiah 54:4:
"'Do not be afraid; you will not suffer shame. Do not fear disgrace; you
will not be humiliated. You will forget the shame of your youth and remember no
more the reproach of your widowhood.'"
Is this latest
release available in audio format or do you have any other works available on
audio? All three of my novels are available in large print and as e-books
with text-to-speech enabled. They are not yet available as traditional audio
books.
What has been the
most important thing you hope your readers will get from your books and why?
I don’t usually write a story with a message in mind, but
find it rises from the characters and their situations. I do hope my readers
learn from the characters’ mistakes and grow in their relationship with the
Lord. Perhaps what I pray most for my readers is to see themselves as God sees
them, deal with whatever entangles them (Shame? Sin? Fear? Pride?), find God’s purpose
in their lives, and go do it in His strength.
As you researched
your books, did you learn anything that particularly touched your heart?
It’s impossible to do research about World War II and not do
so. Even the most benign research question may turn up a poignant, funny,
cruel, or heartbreaking story. I’ve gained a deep respect for those who lived
through the war. They weren’t saintly heroes, but they had strength, dignity,
and honor.
In this latest work,
do you have any topics useful for bibliotherapy, or therapeutic influence
through reading about a disorder or situation?
Bibliotherapy—my, that’s a loaded word with a lot of
responsibility. In each of my novels, the characters had to deal with sins and
issues. In A Distant Melody, both
hero and heroine learn about honesty and obedience. In A Memory Between Us, the heroine deals with shame over her past,
and the hero learns to trust in God rather than his own abilities. In Blue Skies Tomorrow, the heroine deals
with spousal abuse in her past, and both hero and heroine learn about fear and
courage.
Thank you Sarah Sundin for agreeing to answer these
questions. Have a blessed day and keep
on writing!!
GIVEAWAY: A copy of one of Sarah's books this week - your choice. Winner announced on Saturday.
I read "A Memory Between Us" and enjoyed it very much. I would love to win a copy of either of the other books.
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Thank you Sarah and Carrie for this wonderful interview!
ReplyDeleteI recognize the shame Sarah dealt with. Shame led me to the Lord. But first I found it hard to believe that God really loves me, because of the shame of my sins. I had to surrender this to the Lord. And then He took it all away. God is so good and merciful!!
PAM thanks for coming by! I hope to one day read all of Sarah's books but I have been stuck a century or more before that time for my own reading for now! I have one of her books on my Kindle, though, and might peek at it soon.
ReplyDeleteMARIAN, one of the blessings God gave me when i got so sick a couple of years ago was the certain conviction that NONE of that mattered to Him. He kept speaking to my heart about his love and that He was there and that was what mattered. His perfect love heals our hearts.
ReplyDeletePam - I'm so glad you enjoyed the book! Thanks for stopping by!
ReplyDeleteMarian - Thanks for sharing your story! Shame is like pain - it serves an important purpose - to turn us away from sin and toward God. However, Satan then twists that good thing and tells us lies to make us stay in shame instead of living in joy. That Satan - he really annoys me.
Carrie - hallelujah for His perfect love :)
Thank you so much for sharing, Sarah. God is so tender and amazing with us. (And I love all your books, and how you let His love and redemption shine through your stories!)
ReplyDeleteWonderful truths!! Thanks for the interview!
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Kiersti - so true - I love how absolutely personal God is!
ReplyDeleteMarissa - thank you :) God is good!
What a powerful interview...thank you Sarah for sharing with us. It is satan's job to keep reminding us of our past so we cannot be free but as Christians we have the right to remind him of his future!
ReplyDeleteSarah, welcome to OTT and thank you so much for sharing your struggle with shame and how you overcame it! I especially appreciate you going to the trouble of listing how one can overcome this tool satan uses to hinder many Christians. I feel that many visitors to our blog this week will receive alot of help from that special word, Sarah.
ReplyDeleteBeing the adult child of an alcoholic and the victim of child abuse, I can certainly identify with your struggle, and am so thankful how far the Lord has brought me! The enemy still tries to throw it up it my face, but he is a defeated foe!
Oh boy! Can I relate to the "stupid years"... oh yeah. Why do kids go to college to throw their brains away? Isn't it supposed to have the opposite effect? But all too often, we do just that.
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ReplyDeleteI've read all of Sarah's books so no need to enter me in the drawing, but I can testify to how powerful her books are with the spiritual element woven in and fabulous details that bring her stories to life. Love Sarah and her writing!
ReplyDeleteTeresa - you're so right! The key is recognizing that it's Satan's voice we're hearing. He's a tricky little booger.
ReplyDeleteDiana - I'm so glad you're overcoming! Shame can come from so many sources, and it's NOT God's will for our lives.
Pegg - no kidding! I was a little fearful when my son chose the same college I did, but he's doing great - he's very involved with InterVarsity, chose a godly roommate, and I see him growing.
"Reluvbe" - thank you so much! That's so good to hear. If your ladies would like some bookmarks, please let me know - I have gobs :)
Carla - Hi! Love your writing too! Everyone stopping by, PLEASE check out Carla Stewart's "Chasing Lilacs" and "Broken Wings." Fabulous stories!
I would love to win one of Sarah's books.
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Sarah ... first of all, you have a lovely first name!! :)
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your heartfelt journey with us. God bless!!
Thank you, Sarah, for sharing! Shame is a powerful force but thankfully Jesus overcame that for us!!!
ReplyDeleteI haven't read any of your books. They all sound wonderful and healing. I would love the opportunity to read A Memory Between Us.
So, so good to see Sarah here! Love the interview. It's so clear to see Sarah's heart is for the Lord in her writing and all else. That really shines through in her books. It's a real privilege to be at Revell with Sarah. She's so loved! Pls exempt me from the drawing as I have Sarah's wonderful books:)
ReplyDeleteWendy - thank you :)
ReplyDeleteSarah (with an H, properly spelled) - why, you have a lovely name too :)
Anne - hallelujah for that, right? God is so much stronger than our enemy.
Laura - hi there! That's the highest compliment I could receive. And it's an honor to be at Revell with you too! Your books are so beautiful and moving and full of God's truth.